The Freelance Parents’ Survival Guide to Summer With Kids Home

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This post originally published  at the Creative Live Blog

In my son’s final week of school, while my fellow moms were breathing sighs of relief at the coming ease in their schedules, I felt the familiar clench of anxiety. For me, and many freelancers, summer equals a more complex level of scheduling; how do you work while your kids are home making demands as pressing as your deadlines, and still get the quality time that summer provides? As I write this, my active 7-year-old is head-butting me from behind asking, “What are we going to doooooo today?”

It is only 7:30 a.m.

In my annual quest to answer that, I’ve picked the brains of other work-at-home freelance parents for the best tips to survive summer freelancing:

Schedule Shift

Embrace your changing schedule. On the one hand, you now can sleep in past 6 a.m. On the other hand, waking up at 8 a.m., at least in my world, means two lost hours of work time. Look to where you can carve out time.  Andrea Tortora,  freelance writer, editor, communications consultant and food blogger, breaks her work day in half. “I made a deal with my boys, age 6 and 9; they let me work until noon every day, then we spend the afternoons doing something fun together.” Lisa Endlich Heffernan, also a freelance writer, was forced to a greater extreme one summer of heavy deadlines. “I shifted to a different time zone. I went to bed every night at 8:30–after I put my youngest to bed–and got up at three am and wrote for four hours before my family got up.” I tend to work around the edges of the day—early morning and evening—when I don’t have childcare.

Summer by Day, Work by Night

I’m lucky to love my work. Still, as June gloom gives way to dazzling, Disney levels of sunshine, my impulse to work wilts like my garden in the heat. Some freelancers take advantage of nature’s request to come out and play, and save the work for later. Single mom Cassie Dunn, a novelist and freelance editor, has accepted a necessary trade-off. “I can give myself permission to shelve my job during the day, and just enjoy summer fun and memory-making with my kids. The downside is not much down time for myself, because my entire night is spent working.”

Power Playdates

The great thing about summer is that most of the other kids are out of school, too. With my only child, alone time means he’s bored or begging me to play; but with just one friend over, it’s like having our very own camp of two. I can get hours of work done and he has fun. You can even make an informal co-op out of such playdates, by trading off with a fellow parent on certain days of the week.


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